Showing posts with label conscious Discipline. Show all posts
Showing posts with label conscious Discipline. Show all posts

Wednesday, October 10, 2012

I've Been Boo-ed! Now Grab a Treat!

I've been boo-ed! It couldn't have come on a better day than today!  It was just a looong day that required lots of STAR(s) (That's Conscious Discipline language for Smile Take A deep breath and Relax!) I felt like Ms. FrAzzle all day long when I'd rather be Ms. Frizzle! Thank you for making my day, Barbara at Grade ONEderful! You are a wonderful friend and seemed to know I needed a bright spot today!!




Want to join in the fun? Well if your reading this and you wanted to be boo-ed and you haven't been..I'd be happy to add your name to my list! First read the rules:



1. I love all things pumpkin when it comes to things to eat. I shared this before, but I think it is worth sharing again! My famous chocolate chip pumpkin cookie recipe is awesome! It is such a nice treat with a cup of coffee for breakfast or fresh from the oven dipped in whipped creme!

2. Here is a peek at a Halloween subtraction worksheet you can use! Click on the picture to get your own!

3. Here is an activity for your Working With Words center to use during October. I hope you like these adorable graphics by Digital Bakeshop. I think Jaime is so talented. I love using her art work! I'm so thrilled that you can get downloads instantly, now! Sometimes I get an idea and I just can't wait to get going on it!! 


4. I recently bought a bunch of stickers from Carson Dellosa. I am tickled pink by there support of Breast Cancer Research. I'm so thrilled that I'm GIVING AWAY a gift certificate for $25.00 and a product worth $25.00 from their website. PLUS I'm throwing in a cup of coffee from Starbucks...cause I love coffee!! Don't forget to enter to win!

Now I get to boo some people! I love all these people and they have become my friends! Thank you for all the tricks and treats your blogs have given me! I can't wait to go knock on their doors and say, "BOO!"

Laurie @ Chickadee Jubilee

Sue @ SOS Supply

Dana @ Fun in First

Maggie @ First Grade and Fearless

Maria @ curiousfirsties.blogspot.com/

Chrissy @ Read Write Sing

Mrs. Leeby @  Learning With Mrs. Leeby

Please go check these blogs out they will leave you feeling treated and NOT tricked!







Monday, July 30, 2012

No Quick Fix! Clip Chart Freebie!

My oldest daughter is home for the summer before finishing her final year in  college. She is studying chemistry and biology. She has an amazing brain and she has the ability to think things through in a way I have not been gifted with. She does tend to lose things like cell phones, keys, and wallets, but as long as she doesn't lose her mind, she's going places. Her goal is to go to planet Mars someday. Her name happens to be, Mars! Many people don't know this, but I'm letting you in on a family secret. Her real name is Margaret. She was named after my mom and sister. Since she discovered the planet Mars at the age of three, everyone has called her Mars.

Kpm Doodles!
Mars is working in childcare for the summer. The last two years she had been working at a place she lovingly nicknamed "Stinkins Adventure". She is really good at coming up with nicknames! At this job she threw food to people who complained loudly about its cost for the amount of food they were given. She really didn't have any control over this. She followed the rules and people got mad at her. She couldn't do it another year, so she stepped out in faith and quit before her first day of work. When a job came up for her in childcare she jumped at it.


I had never imagined her in childcare. I've seen how caring she is towards her brother and sister. I watched her frustration with me and her father when she's had to lovingly explain or teach us something. Sarcasm is dripping here! She'll be the first to admit that she doesn't have a lot of patience. Guess what! You guessed it! She is doing a wonderful job working with toddlers. She thinks they're funny. She is a case study in God giving us what we need at the right time. I've seen her in action. She is loving, kind, caring and warm with these wonderful little people.

So she came home from work one day this week and asked if she could read my Conscious Discipline book. She wants to help a couple of her charges learn to behave in a more appropriate way. She is trying to get inside their minds and figure out how they work. Uh-oh, she's invested in these little cuties. She has only a month before she heads back to school. I love Conscious Discipline and I would  have gladly handed her the book, BUT it isn't a quick fix guide. I would love for her to read it. I think it is a wonderful guide not only for teachers, but also for parents, bosses, mentors, anyone in leadership! The draw back for her right now is that  CD isn't quick. It is a life changing retrain of our brains. We have to "see" situations differently. Chapter 1 on composure is opening my eyes to see how I can create an environment in my home and classroom for my family and owlets. The first four principles are easy to remember:
1. Self control is necessary when disciplining children.
2. No one makes us angry unless we give them permission.
3. We must have a plan to reduce stress for ourselves and those around us.
4. Everyone in the classroom has the job of keeping the classroom safe.

These are wonderful principals for us all. I am so excited to start using CD language in my classroom in the fall. I haven't thought a whole lot about my physical classroom structure, but I have been praying for my students everyday and I have been thinking about how I can use Composure to make my classroom environment best for student learning.

Back to Mars. I wanted to give her a quick fix. I've never used a clip chart, but I thought it might help her little ones learn some composure! We talked about it and she got pretty excited. So, I've made her a clip chart for her little monsters little cuties. Even though owls are my theme in the fall, I'm thinking about trying this in my room. I would hate for my owlets to get tired of owls. I want them to remember O(only) W(with) the L(Lord's) S(strength) we can do all things.
Click on picture to go to Google Docs! Also available for sale at TPT!


 Let me know what you think!

Don't forget I'm looking for a home for this owl!



Friday, July 13, 2012

Conscious Discipline : Composure

I should have known it was Friday the 13th!  I stayed up way too late working on my post for Chapter Nine of In Pictures and In Words last night. "I'll sleep in", I thought. First the crows woke me up. Just as I was drifting back to sleep the Garbage Guys came though with their monster trucks. I'm starting to get my float back on when someone reminds me to take my daughter to her babysitting job.  I go to make coffee and NO FILTERS!  I was really feeling like a monster at this point. Just before I posted my thoughts on Chapter 9, I find out it's been postponed until next week. Now I'm growling like a monster because I look forward to this event all week.

Self-control....Self control ...I'm studying Conscious Discipline right now. "Self control must be your first priority as a teacher"  I'm supposed to do something when I feel stressed ...STAR!
S Smile
T Take a deep breath
A And
R Relax
Wow! It's working.  I'm starting this day over the brain smart way and I'm going to implement stress reduction activities.
Chapter 1 is all about "Composure". Though I can't implement this in my classroom YET, I can in my home. I've been practicing these ideas at home and it's making a difference in how I relate to my own children. They are maybe getting a little tired of me saying, "No one can make you angry without your permission.
They are not as innocent as they look. Sometimes
they are monsters!

I'm so glad I got this book. There is only one draw back. I want to read the whole thing right away and start using all the powers. Conscious Discipline is a program that is reflective and in order to change I can only practice one skill at a time. I like the advice for using this book and I think it's good advice for life, "Be patient with yourself and enjoy the process. You cannot have an unhappy ending to a happy journey! It reminds me to not give up on myself and others...God isn't finished with me yet!


 Wait! I like monsters! They're cute and funny. Maybe I can turn this day around after all. And I did!  I made mini-posters for each of the Key Phrases used in Conscious Discipline. I'll be ready when I get to each power! If you are feeling like a monster, you can click on the picture and download a set for yourself, too!